Validation is an essential communication tool that let's others know that you see, hear, and/or know them and that you truly get it from their frame of reference.

Validation is Essential to Effective Relationships: Everyone Wants to be Seen & Heard

Validation is not just something to give to others. It is also important to validate your own inner self. Validation is a method for deep understanding. It can let others know you get it from their frame of reference. This requires that you truly see, hear and/or deeply know who and what you are trying to Read more about Validation is Essential to Effective Relationships: Everyone Wants to be Seen & Heard[…]

It’s Not About You: Learn to Quiet Your Ego

Hearing someone say, “it’s not about you,” is a sure sign your ego has gotten in the way. “Arrogance and fear still keep you from learning the simplest and most significant lesson of all…. It’s not about you….Silence your ego and your power will rise.”  The Ancient One in the film, Dr. Strange. Unfortunately everyone needs ego to Read more about It’s Not About You: Learn to Quiet Your Ego[…]

Who Are You Beyond Your Ego? Hold Space for the Authentic Self

What is the true or authentic self and who are you beyond your ego?  The true you is connected with the spirit of you — many call this your soul.   Mindfulness is one way to create and hold space for this truth of you.    Remember that mindfulness is the practice of being fully Read more about Who Are You Beyond Your Ego? Hold Space for the Authentic Self[…]